I was born to succeed, not fail.
I was born to triumph, not to bow my head in defeat.
I was born to toast victories, not to whimper and whine.
What happened to me? When did my dreams all fade into a grey mediocrity where average people
applaud each other as excellent?
No person is ever so much deceived by another, as by
himself. The coward is convinced that he is only
being cautious and the miser always thinks he is practicing
frugality. Nothing is so easy as to deceive
one’s self since what we wish is always easy to believe. No
one, in my life, has deceived me as much as I
have.
Why do I always try to cover my small accomplishments under
blankets of words that make light of my
work or excuses for my lack of ability? Worst of all, I have
come to believe my excuses so that I willingly
sell my days for pennies while consoling myself with
thoughts that things could always be worse.
No more!
It is time to study the reflection in my looking glass until
I recognize that the most harmful enemy that I
have . . . is me. At last, in this magic moment with my
first scroll, the veil of self-deceit is beginning to lift
Now I know that there are three classes of people in the
world. The first learn from their own experience
—these are wise. The second learn from the experience of
others—these are happy. The third learn
neither from their own experience nor from the experience of
others—these are fools.
I am not a fool. Henceforth I will stand on my own feet and
my terrible crutches of self-pity and self-con-tempt have been cast aside
forever.
Never again will I pity or belittle myself.
How foolish I was when I stood in despair, by the side of
the road, and envied the successful and wealthy
as they paraded by. Are they blessed with unique skills,
rare intelligence, heroic courage, enduring
ambition, and other outstanding qualities that I posses not?
Have they been allotted more hours, each
day, in which to perform their mighty tasks? Do they have
hearts full of compassion and souls overflow -ing with love that are different
from mine? No! God plays no favorites. We were all fashioned from the
same clay.
Now I also know that the sadness and setbacks of my life are
not unique to me. Even the wisest and
most successful of our world suffer chapters of heartbreak
and failure but they, unlike me, have learned
that there is no peace without trouble, no rest without
strain, no laughter without sorrow, no victory
without struggle and that is the price we all pay for
living. There was a time when I paid the price willing-ly and easily but
constant disappointments and defeats first eroded my confidence and then my
cour -age even as drops of water will, in time, destroy the strongest granite.
All that is now behind me. No
longer am I one of the living dead, remaining always in the
shadows of others and hiding behind my
sorry apologies and alibis while the years waste away.
Never again will I pity or belittle myself.
The First Vow of Success
Excerpt taken from Og Mandino’s The Greatest Salesman in the
World Part II The End of the Story
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